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Friday, July 25, 2014

Ingredients for Success

Highlights from the July 15, 2014 Huffington Post article entitled "7 Ways Congregations Can Embrace People with Disabilities".

In a major study conducted by the University of Kentucky and Vanderbilt University, only 43% of the parents of children with special needs surveyed described their religious community as supportive and more than a third changed their place of worship because their child had not been included or welcomed.

The seven ways include:
  • Communication - Provide a resouce person to listen to the needs of the person with a disability and their family to learn how they can work together toward full inclusion.
  • Accessiblity - To the extent possible, meet the physical needs of the individual.
  • Support - Provide an aide or peer assistant to participate in religious education, small group ministry, etc.
  • Leadership - Faith communities where leaders are committed to including people with disabilities were more welcoming, offered greater opportunities for people to share their gifts and were more physically accessible.
  • Participation - Invite people with disabilities to sit on boards and committees and to take more visible roles in congregational life.
  • Education - Congregations that educate their members on disability issues are more welcoming and better able to integrate people with special needs into the life of the community.
  • Love - Parents of children with special needs who experienced love and acceptance reported their congregations were sources of great strength and support.
With respect,

Mark Bernstein
Congregational Life Consultant, Central East Regional Group
UUA Liaison to Equual Access



Saturday, August 4, 2012

One Step At A Time



Accessibility Floor Mats Adorn the
Floor of UUFCC
On the home page of its website, the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Centre County (UUFCC), located in State College, PA, includes the following statement: We welcome participation in our services and activities by all persons without regard to age, ancestry, color, disability or handicap, national origin, race, gender or sexual orientation.

And guess what? They mean it. When you walk into their beautiful sanctuary, one of the things that you notice are several spaces among the rows of chairs with blue mats placed on the floor. Printed on the mats is the wheelchair logo, the universal symbol of accessibility. The floor mats are attractive and blend seamlessly with the dark blue of the surrounding chairs. More importantly, they signal to the congregation and to those visiting that this is a place where all are welcome; that we have room here for all.

The Fellowship’s Minister, Rev. Mark Hayes, says, “Rather than shuffling chairs around, we wanted to be more intentional and more welcoming.”

Their intentionality extends also to those with hearing disabilities. The sanctuary has a two level looping system, which enables anyone with a hearing aid to listen clearly and free of other distracting noise in the environment without the use of a separate receiver and headset.

UUFCC is just one of many Unitarian Universalist congregations that are committed to greater comfort and inclusion of people with disabilities in worship and congregational life. The Unitarian Church of Barneveld, located in Central New York State, is a small congregation with a very big heart. In the spring of 2012, they dedicated their recently completed ramp access. The ramp, which provides access to the lower building’s social area, was built with donations from members and friends, UU related funding, and hours of volunteer labor. For the time being, access to the building will only allow individuals to hear the worship service, but the good people of Barneveld are not done. Phase two of the plan will be the installation of a lift from the ground floor to the sanctuary.

As journalist and social activist Dorothy Day wrote so eloquently, “People say, 'What is the sense of our small effort?' They cannot see that we must lay one brick at a time, take one step at a time." The people of Centre County and the people of Barneveld, one step at a time, are building monuments to our faith and to our commitment to be a religion for all.

Thanks to Ellen Asprooth, St. Lawrence District Reporter, for contributing to this blog.

Mark Bernstein
CERG Growth Consultant and UUA Liaison to Equual Access

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Opening Your Heart


A couple of years ago, I attended a worship service at a wonderful church in Pennsylvania.  I arrived a few minutes late and found the congregation standing for the opening hymn.  I took my place in one of the pews and stood along with the rest of the congregation.  We proceeded to stand for the next several minutes while the minister made several pronouncements and we sang a second hymn.  I grew a little tired and began thinking about how good it would feel to finally sit.  I looked around the sanctuary and saw other members who I imagined were thinking the same thing.  I also reflected on those in the congregation who were physically unable to stand and how they must feel, having to sit all this time while everyone around them was on their feet.

This was one of many moments I have had in congregations across our region where I questioned our sense of hospitality toward those who have varying abilities…in mobility, functionality, and interrelatedness.

One of the keys to growth in our congregations and in our faith movement is our willingness to be more accessible and more inclusive of people with varying abilities.  According to the National Organization on Disability, people with disabilities are very likely to say their faith is important to them, but are more likely to not attend services due to accessibility issues. With the aging of the American population, they point out, the situation is becoming an increasingly significant factor in worship community vitality.

Part of the problem, certainly, is physical barriers.  Steps that people can’t climb; sound systems that people can’t hear; hymnals that people can’t read.  According to Ralph Adams Cram, architect and critic of American church design, places of worship... “were to be spiritual oases, set apart from their pedestrian environment through substantial, soaring walls and monumental stairs approaching impressive entrances well above the street. Unfortunately, our legacy is daunting stairs, heavy doors, and soaring walls. Much as our hearts may want to welcome everyone to enter our halls 'as a homecoming' the reality is that we are sometimes confronted with architectural designs that make hospitality a difficult undertaking, to say the least.“

While it may be cost prohibitive to make large structural changes, most accommodations require little or no outlay of money.  The biggest investment is not in money, but in the effort to find creative ways of enhancing the worship experience.  Make sure there are spaces in the sanctuary for wheelchairs; invest in assistive listening devices (they’re not as expensive as you may think); have several orders of service in large font available; ensure that you have enough accessible parking spots near the building; ask people during the worship service not to stand, but to “rise in body or in spirit” or introduce more “seated” hymns.

Here are some additional ideas for creating a more hospitable and inclusive environment:
·        Always use microphones (even if someone says they don’t need one)
·        Encourage speakers, worship associates, etc. to speak loudly and clearly
·        Raise the pulpit so that all can see
·        Make sure there is accessibility to the pulpit so that people with mobility limitations can speak or lead the service
·        Have a wheelchair or two donated and make it available
·        Wear name tags all the time for people with memory problems
·        Record services and make them available. Often a CD can be created instantaneously; or have them available on your website.
·        Hand out printed versions of the sermon.    

In his book, Year of Our Lord: Faith, Hope and Harmony in the Mississippi Delta, T.R. Pearson tells the story of Lucas McCarty, a young white man born with severe cerebral palsy who uses a wheelchair but also gets around by walking on his knees with the help of knee pads worn over his blue jeans.  He shouts and makes vocal sounds, but for the most part communicates through an electronic language device.  Lucas became a member of the Trinity House of Prayer, a small, poor African American congregation.  He was embraced by the congregation and was in no way considered out of place or disruptive.  Lucas even joined the choir.  Pearson writes, “Without exception, Trinity’s members treated Lucas with unstudied compassion. At no financial cost to the congregation — no special programs, no architectural alterations— they demonstrated that making people with disabilities, even severe disabilities, feel a part of them is within reach of every house of worship. Sometimes it's not about building a ramp. Sometimes it really is about opening up your heart.” 

May it be so.

Mark Bernstein
CERG Growth Consultant and UUA Liaison to Equual Access

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Shared knowledge makes the Accessibility Guidelines document strong

On September 7, 2011, the Board of Equual Access approved a document entitled “Accessibility Guidelines for Unitarian Universalist Congregations: Creating Welcoming Congregations for People of all Abilities.” After the vote, the document was uploaded to the Equual Access website. This was a project of the Equual Access Policy Committee, of which I am the chair.

The writing of this document has been in process for many months. One of the things that make this an especially strong statement of accessibility is that a number of people contributed significantly to its production. The first pass at a document used a very different spreadsheet format, which was hard for blind people to read and for others to understand. This simply wouldn’t do - an accessibility document that was not accessible was unacceptable! Using input and suggestions from reviewers, the document was recast into its present form and the members of the Policy Committee each took on responsibility for writing parts of the document using their own knowledge and research.

Policy Committee member Rachel Klein wrote an excellent section on history and legislation. Policy Committee member Cynthia Parkhill wrote the section on Advocacy, and also pointed out that the needs of people using a printed copy of the document were different from those using an on-line copy. This resulted in having two different versions, one for print and one for online use. Policy Committee member Michael Sallwasser was instrumental in creating the structure for the document writing the section on creating a Welcoming Environment.

The document benefited from the reviews and comments we arranged for. When we had made our first pass at the document, we made the document available to people on the access-l list-serve and members of Equual Access for review and comment. I was very pleased when a number of people made significant efforts to review the document. This resulted in covering things that needed to be added to or improved upon the first draft; examples are sections on service animals, on developmental disabilities, on deaf culture and on hidden disabilities. We had the blessing of having an excellent copy editor for whom this was a labor of love.

When we had questions about how to cover a particular issue, I looked through the membership of Equual Access and contacted someone who had an interest in that issue. An example: I requested that several blind Equual Access members take a look at one of our drafts to see if they saw a problem with its accessibility from their point of view.

We expect that as the document is used, we will get questions about clarifying something, adding something, or some other aspect of its usefulness. We welcome these comments, as we have learned that making its production a shared process makes the document stronger and more useful. We want to thank everyone who participated in its production now and in the future.

Rev. Barbara F. Meyers
Community Minister
Mission Peak Unitarian Universalist Congregation
38132 Kimbro Street, Fremont, CA 94536
510-796-5722
com_minister@mpuuc.org
www.mpuuc.org/mentalhealth